No relationship problem is impossible. Even if you feel hopeless, you can still win your ex boyfriend back. Just because you two broke up for whatever reason(s), there is still time to get him back. The best time to get him back is within 1 and a half months after the initial break.
Let The Breakup Happen
If you tried everything to save the relationship, then let him go (for now). Don’t prevent him from breaking up with you. This may seem bad but it is a paradox. People often demand “space” when they feel they have given to you or to the relationship too much and now they need their “me” time. This can be helpful to you since you can have some of your “me” time. Both of you can actually benefit from the break.
How To Win Him Back
During this breakup period, it’s important to keep the following in mind:
- Saying nasty things about him with the hope of getting his attention (I did this personally with disastrous results);
- Making your boyfriend feel that you desperately need him back into your life (manipulation is an absolute no-no).
Instead of clouding yourself with destructive emotions, try to re-channel them to your advantage by:
- Figure out why the breakup really occurred;
- Resist the temptation to nag him back to you. Yes, this is extremely difficult to do without the right knowledge of why and how to do it.
Getting your ex boyfriend back to you is not rocket science or hopeless. It just takes the right guide and the right advice that you can follow through comfortably and safely to the end. Hopefully, that end is you and your ex boyfriend getting back together.